Blaming others for the quality of our life experience is futile

The victor and victim role play is in reality denial and delusion. The focus on chaos and increased outer human drama is a result of an inauthentic, unconscious, and programmed approach to living. The outer conflicts triggering us emotionally in a uncomfortable way reflect our states of unintegrated inner turmoil. Not integrated and nowhere to run away from - the only thing left is to blame other people for our emotional turmoil.

It is like driving but looking at the rear-mirror and reacting to it.